Three Reasons Networking Is Like A Fine Wine

This is a guest post by Thom Singer, a professional speaker and the author of ten books on the power of business development, networking, entrepreneurship, and presentation skills. He is scheduled to present “Networking Unplugged” at the 2014 PLUS Conference.

Networking is one of the most important things that you can do to advance your career.  While your education, experience and expertise are all very important you should never forget that all opportunities come from people.  Cultivating mutually beneficial relationships with those who can assist you along your professional journey must never be forgotten.

Still, many professionals cringe at the thought of attending business events, meeting new people and establishing new contacts.  They view networking as a strong dose of castor oil.  However, it is better to appreciate your networking efforts as if enjoying a fine glass of wine.  Here are three reasons why:

  1. The opening of a new bottle of wine or beginning a new friendship are both filled with possibilities. When sampling a new wine people always have high hopes for what they will soon discover. The same should be true when you meet someone new in a professional setting.  Just as you cannot prejudge the flavor of wine by looking at a label, always remember not to jump to conclusions about the people you meet.  If we are always filled with the excitement of possibility with each new encounter, then we will ask more questions and uncover more of what makes human beings complex and exciting.  Everyone has something special to offer, and you never know who could refer you business opportunities or otherwise affect your future.
  1. People and wine should both be savored and cherished. Nobody would guzzle a bottle of Cristal Champagne or beer bong the Opus One Cabernet.  The same thing should be true for the way you treat the people in your life.  You cannot rush the creation of new friendships or move too fast in looking to turn these fresh contacts into business opportunities. Additionally, when your schedule gets crazy and the pressures of the job are overwhelming it is easy to ignore the important people you already know.  Everyone rationalizes that others will understand when they are not in touch due to being swamped with work, but out of sight is out of mind.  If we do not invest time in people, then our friendships will wither and die.
  1. Both are best when shared. A good wine is special when enjoyed with friends.  Likewise your network has the most power when you become a connector and make the effort to introduce those you know to each other.  Do not hoard your database, but instead share the relationships you have made by connecting the dots and helping others find ways to forge new links. When you make meaningful introductions to those in your network you are positively impacting their career.  By doing this you strengthen your own reputations and increase the value you bring to others.  People will always remember those who unselfishly shaped their success.  Regularly review your database and bring people together, as you win when the people around you win.

Uncork your future by embracing the people whom you meet and discovering ways to assist all whom you know to achieve higher levels of accomplishment.  Pour yourself into your networking.

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One thought on “Three Reasons Networking Is Like A Fine Wine

  1. Hello everyone. I am very excited to present at the PLUS event this fall. If you have any questions about how to maximize your conference experience… feel free to reach out to me in advance. thom (at) thomsinger.com or via Twitter @thomsinger. See you in November in Las Vegas!!!t

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